家姐和細佬,誰容易養?

家姐和細佬,誰較聽話?誰較黏人?

家姐和細佬,誰好唱口?誰好數口?

家姐和細佬,誰睡/吃/拉得好?

家姐和細佬,誰更像未來特首?

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男仔真是好動些。

女仔真是會畫畫。

等等等等、等等等等、等等等等。

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這些問題這些話,煩請各位高抬貴口,在我面前可以慳番;在孩子面前,更請收聲!

Believe it or not, 家姐四歲已有聽覺,細佬呢,亦肯定唔係聾。

若果立壞心腸要一對兄弟從小爭崩頭,大可以每天將二人比一比,更可將比較用來做激將法。

當然,其實我每天都暗暗在心裡想,又或於夜深人靜時跟爹爹說:家姐還是細佬的大便較兇?家姐還是細佬更願意吃蔬菜?家姐還是細佬更高EQ?我只敢在心裡靜雞雞比,更鞭策自己連心裡的靜雞雞也盡快捉走。

要每個孩子從day 1開始相信自己是獨一無二的寶貝,從而愛惜自己,父母首先也必須如此相信,包括靜雞雞時。

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  1. 小孜媽

    愛這篇。

    從前恨死我媽那套比較激勵法,雖然管用但絕不好受。後來我也警愓自己:相信媽媽是獨一無二的寶貝,相信老公是獨一無二的寶貝,相信自己是獨一無二的寶貝。

    嘢!

  2. 從來也不願拿自家孩子去跟人比,不是我不好勝而是心底裏總覺自己小鬼梗係寶啦,點比。

  3. eeb

    如果小朋友自己要比較呢?
    近日常有人對我說自己是number one,細佬是number two,自己有A,有好多A(自己俾自己既),而細佬得個C,一d都唔叻 @_@

  4. 訪客

    I wish I had a mom like you 37 years ago…then probably I wouldn’t be that much of a monster now

  5. cc

    I love u, mama4 ……

  6. Net

    Need some advice.
    How to deal with the comparative comments from other parents whom you have to meet every week?
    And what about the comparison is coming from your very own parents and they negatively comment on your only child during the whole meal, from big teeth to small eyes to big “stupid" head to…
    I’ve asked them nicely to speak positively, but they just keep on commentating. And as you said, my child’s ears are functioning normally.

    • 不敢說是advice喇。For those “other parents", I suppose you have already had a GOOD talk with them…… If I were you, I would seriously consider avoiding them if things get really bad…… But, that’s just me 😉
      As for your parents…… hm…… can you divert their attention to other things whenever they bring up negative topics?

      • 訪客

        Thanks mama4!
        Yes, hopefully I can avoid those “other parents" after this summer.
        And I’ll try to see if diversion helps.
        Thanks again!

  7. 話得好,比比比,我也最討厭比,兩個都咁cute,咁精靈,比乜鬼呀!!
    好彩我得一個,唔駛比.

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